
My Mother (1936-2012).
December 28, 2007.
Photo by Bhai Baldeep Singh.
My ma,
Seems as if
came in a pair of pairs
Smiles and tears
(song) waves and (dholak) throbs
Before she let me walk on my pairs
she gave me a pair of pairs
to me
a song and a letter
for me
a blessing and a prayer.
Pal Zakhmi called me from the US
—I remember how the Zakhmi men accompanied Maurizia and I as we drove to the hospital at Ludhiana, and attended along with us, the sons, to my dad after he had met with an accident in 2004—
Pal Zakhmi shared a couplet as he remembered his dad, the illustrious Bhai Saheb Bhai Dharam Singh Zakhmi, quoted once is his discourse:
Ma gayee chhaaN gayee
sir thaleyoN baah gayee
(would translate as “mother goes shade goes, so does the arm-pillow support from underneath one’s head”)
I said nay!
Ma gayee
—birkh gaeyaa
chhaan na gayee—
Ma went
yes, as a tree succumbs
to winds almighty
But, I now know and
say with certainty
her protective shade
yet remains
her embrace still
me surrounds…
Love for her flows
incarnate as tears
Oh how I cry…
Say I Gratitude
to the One
who chose
her as mine
and I as hers.
I offer at her feet
all fruit of my harvest
accumulated across
past mine present mine future mine.
To the first teacher of my teacher,
with gratitude
I wish to dedicate some verses
like flowers at her feet
to adorn her like a princess for the journey towards the Eternal Beloved.
” For, down the silvery tide afar,
there came a boat, as swift and bright,
As shines in heaven some pilgrim star
that leaves its own high home, at night,
to shoot to distant shrines of light.
Oh no, I have no voice or hand
for such a song, in such a land.”
(From the poem Lalla Rookh, by Thomas Moore, 1861)
waheguru jio….
A life-long tribute…
waheguru and peace prevail
..
Dearly Beloved,
This is one of my favorite Shabads… i miss my Mom dearly…
She is well & Lives in India…while i am in NY…
I recite this Shabad in her memory & remembering her Love…For Ever….
I Know the Pain of separation from a Mother…
But as Guru Arjan sings…
Our Mothers Love & Blessings is what makes us what we are…..
Our Mothers Inspire us Sikhs to seek True Love & Happiness in Waheguru…..
Goojaree, Fifth Mehl:
Remembering Him, all sins are erased, and ones generations are saved.
So meditate continually on the Lord, Har, Har; He has no end or limitation. ||1||
O son, this is your mother’s hope and prayer,
that you may never forget the Lord, Har, Har, even for an instant. May you ever vibrate upon the Lord of the Universe. ||1||Pause||
May the True Guru be kind to you, and may you love the Society of the Saints.
May the preservation of your honor by the Transcendent Lord be your clothes, and may the singing of His Praises be your food. ||2||
So drink in forever the Ambrosial Nectar; may you live long, and may the meditative remembrance of the Lord give you infinite delight.
May joy and pleasure be yours; may your hopes be fulfilled, and may you never be troubled by worries. ||3||
Let this mind of yours be the bumble bee, and let the Lord’s feet be the lotus flower.
Says servant Nanak, attach your mind to them, and blossom forth like the song-bird, upon finding the rain-drop.
In Reverence & Remembrance….
Ode To My Ustadji’s Mother….All Mothers….
Dhan Nirankar….Dhan Nirankar….
Sat Kartar…..Sat Kartar….
ਸਾਰਗ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥ Sarang 5th Guru.
ਮਾਈ ਸਤਿ ਸਤਿ ਹਰਿ ਸਤਿ ਸਤਿ ਸਤਿ ਸਾਧਾ ॥
O my mother, True, True, True is God, and true, true, true is His saint.
ਬਚਨੁ ਗੁਰੂ ਜੋ ਪੂਰੈ ਕਹਿਓ ਮੈ ਛੀਕਿ ਗਾਂਠਰੀ ਬਾਧਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
The word, which the Perfect Guru has uttered; that I have firmly tied to my skirt. Pause
Bhai Ji, I’ve heard you sing this. You are blessed to have a mother who taught you and she prayed.
ਆਸਾਵਰੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੪ ॥ Aasaavaree, Fourth Mehl:
ਮਾਈ ਮੋਰੋ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮੁ ਰਾਮੁ ਬਤਾਵਹੁ ਰੀ ਮਾਈ ॥ O mother, my mother, tell me about my Beloved Lord.